online dating conversation starters

Ideas to unawkward things on a possible first date between highschoolers?
I like this one girl and we;ve been friends for a while. Lately we havent talked much, only online, and rarely awknowledge eachother in the school halls. I was thinking of going to the movies or to dinner with her or something to reignite the friendship and later to expand it. Im just afraid that it will be very awkward and that ill turn her off since im not very outgoing and a little geeky and she doesnt usually lead conversations. Even the idea of her getting into my car seems awkward, not cuz of the car cuz its nice, but cuz i dont know how to communicate with her especially if its one-on-one. Any ideas? i dont know where to start. I dont talk to girls often. Regular conversation starters wont work cuz we know basic things bout each other already. Maybe we need an activity or something to do together. IDK. DOnt worry by geeky i didnt mean fat or anything, Im on a swim team so im pretty lean.
You are looking for an activity to share?
Well- how about volunteer work?
You sound like you are in the USA (but I could be mistaken). I'm sure the winter has many people needing blankets etc. and Red Cross / Salvos / Soup kitchens could sure use the volunteers.
Gives you a common goal, and something to talk about.
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